point?

I feel that I'm missing something... something big.
I'm not a hundred percent as to what it might be but there is something really lacking in my life right now. Maybe I feel this way because it seems that time is standing still for me but for everyone else it's streaking ahead. In the past week alone I've heard of 3 new pregnancies and an 1 new engagement. Today alone I learned of 1 new car and 2 new house purchases. Everyone - except me it feels - is getting on with their lives and if being a 'grownup' where as I'm.... I'm... what the hell am I doing?
I teach which is work. I haven't a social life to speak of (which someone that doesn't know me at all so observantly pointed out to me this morning - thanks :D! ) As I was driving back from the gym today I thought how pointless my current existence is and started thinking how pointless existence is period. I mean, we're born - we grow - we work - we die. If we're anyone but me, so it seems... we'll experience happiness, explore, be challenged, love freely with reciprocation, and enjoy being in general.
I had my charts read a few weeks ago... it scared me. I don't like what's going to be and shockingly, they're so far very accurate. In short... I'm doomed to a miserable and pointless existence. Motivation gone.
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Feeling a little invaded...

Here's the scenario... read and then give your opinion please:

I have just returned from a 3 day trip with a bus of 13-14 year olds, before which I didn't get any sleep due to preparations that took until the last minute, so you can imagine the current state of sleep deprivation I currently am experiencing.

Part of the preparations were to prepare instructions for my fill in while I was gone. In those instructions I left a suggestion of something to the effect of "if the main office doesn't have anything pressing that they need done, come back to the classroom and you can tidy the front area" I repeat "tidy the FRONT."

No where in that do I read (or would have read into) go through my desk drawers, through out things you think I don't need, rearrange/tidy my office, take personal items off my bulletin board.. oh.. and let some kids go through my stuff too.

I'm sorry, but that just seems wrong to me. Yes, I know my office wasn't eat off the floor clean and was due for a good overhaul but it's still my office and the plan was to clean it up after the mayhem of the past 2 weeks concluded. Am I out to lunch here? I feel totally violated. I happened to see the dustbin by my desk completely full of paper (which erks me because I recycle like a made woman) so I started pulling things out and found things that students had given me 5 years ago that sure, were only little scraps of paper with weird sayings on them but they had sentimental value to me! And she threw them out! Totally unimpressed...

So am I over reacting to this? I realize that she really did mean well and that she thought it would be a nice gift to me to come back and have things totally cleaned up - which is true, the front of the room is nice and tidy as I had asked - but... the office!? She even left a note saying "This stack of papers is likely garbage but I left if for you... I hope you can find everything..." and then I find things that are clearly (well, clearly to me because they were on the bulletin board up high and purposefully placed there) not intended for the dustbin IN the dustbin!

What would you do? I'm thinking I should call and thank her for her efforts but... blah blah blah...

I'm being called...

I'm in the process of signing up for another conducting workshop/session/camp/thingy this coming summer and am so excited about it! It's only a week long and it's about a completely different style of conducting that I've only dabbled in once or twice but I'm really, really looking forward to the experience... if I get in. Apparently, they fill up quickly so I'm hoping that they'll take my money.

I was having a fairly typical 'band geek' talk with a friend tonight and it was great to once again get a like minded perspective on techniques and philosophies and at the same time totally bash one another for our incredibly high reading on the geekitude scale. I miss that. I need that. Yup, I'm kinda sick... or just super passionate about the (dare I say it) 'craft.' I guess I can't really be all that snobbish and serious about 'the craft' if I have to put the words 'the craft' in quotation marks meaning that I'm making fun of the seriousness of 'the craft.'

*phhhhttt* whatever! Doesn't it take a total geek to make fun of total geeks in order to cancel out the geekiness of the total geekiness - OR - does it just compound the geekitude factor thus creating a never ending spiral of geekiness that inevitably leads to the demise of all geeks?

I think I need to go to bed. Reports Cards await me tomorrow... stupid administrative duties...